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prettyaveragewhiteshark:

ryebreadgf:

not going to lie guys i don’t think being employed is for me

devastated to report that being unemployed is also terrible

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1989nihil:

sun-ni-day:

sun-ni-day:

sun-ni-day:

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OK @meangoose you win the tags today😆

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OK I’m stealing these tags too coz it’s the gospel truth by @starkcontrasts


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@starkcontrasts don’t forget that Sheppard mounted that rescue mission while critically injured, guilt-tripping Keller, and basically telling Carter to her face that he’s going to disobey her orders, and that she’s welcome to have him kicked out of the USAF afterwards.

(via dorothyoz39)

lesbiacebian:

lesbiacebian:

“i liked it before it was cool” well i liked it AFTER it was cool when everyone abandoned it

i get really into shows that aired like 5+ years ago like “have y’all heard of this”

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isabellascarlett1:

Asexual Sex Workers are loved 💗

Hypersexual Asexuals are loved 💗

Kinky Asexuals are loved 💗

Polyamorous Asexuals are loved 💗

Asexuals who wear revealing clothes are loved 💗

Asexuality is a spectrum, and it’s okay to have a more complicated relationship to sex and relationships.

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hermscat:

themarchrabbit:

astoriachef:

invisiblelad:

theconcealedweapon:

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I was just explaining how I saw “To Wong Fu,” in the theaters as a 17 year old with a bunch of highschool friends and absolutely nobody was scandalized. This drag panic is entirely orchestrated and much ado about nothing.

I mean, somebody’s going to mention Dustin Hoffman in Tootsie, or Flip Wilson as Geraldine, but way back in the fifties, Milton Berle was on Texaco Star Theater and your grandparents or great-grandparents loved it.

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A reminder that drag is old. It’s so old it’s ridiculous. Drag has been done in theater since the beginning of theater. And sometimes those characters are supposed to be another gender [Peter Pan is usually played by a small adult woman, and Edna Turnblad from Hairspray is famously a woman’s role that’s supposed to be cast with a drag queen]. Sometimes it’s just a part of the show. [Some Like It Hot, where the two male characters are disguised as women to hide from the mob, and one ends the movie with a wealthy man] Drag queens as a trope have always been sassy, world-weary, and absolutely confident in themselves and their ability to attract men. Hell, sometimes the joke is that they’re [deliberately] making a straight male character uncomfortable and we’re supposed to be laughing at the straight male’s discomfort. Law & Order has shown drag queens for decades with asshole detectives referring to them as “ma'am” when they’re in drag even as they’re trying to avoid the sequins.

This rhetoric is frightening because of how quickly the neo-fascist movements in the US have managed to get it to take hold.

May I add to this with the UK tradition of the “Dame” in pantomime which has been around since 1806 when a Mr Simmonds played Mother Goose.

The reason I think that this isn’t such a big issue here compared to the US is that most of us fondly remember screaming “It’s behind you!!!” when our parents and grandparents took us to traditional Christmas performances which were DESIGNED for children’s entertainment.

Taking into account the number of preachers/religious leaders that seem to be responsible for child sexual assault in America, I can’t help but think that the US needs to get over itself on this non-issue!

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shi1498912:

grey-sorcery:

This is why it is so important to be critical and double check everything you generate using image generators and text-based AI.

re: government regulation: how about pulling the plug on the whole fucking thing altogether, and redirect the resoueces to combat the effects of climate change

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queeranarchism:

mtndewloyalist-x:

silvasaliva:

having cash is like having secret money. like whos gonna find out i’m buying tacos with this crisp $20 bill??? not my bank account, that’s for sure

That’s literally why the government wants to stop it

Defend cash. The existence of a cash economy  is so so necessary for the survival of every population that the government wants to kill. Homeless people, sex workers, undocumented people, addicts. They all need cash to survive.

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chordsykat:

tellmevarric:

kyraneko:

systlin:

Seriously though, modern fandom, y’all need to remember that you can, like, ship multiple ships. 

Like I can ship two ships that are diametrically opposed, at the same time, because I like both ideas. You don’t have to choose one or the other. 

Like I can ship, for example, Sam/Frodo, and also Sam/Rosie, both AT THE SAME TIME. I don’t have to pick ONE couple and denounce all others, and tell everyone else that their ships are WRONG and BAD and mine is the only TRUE AND CORRECT ship. 

Related: You don’t have to sink other ships to sail yours.

Exactly! You can have more than one ship. You can have an ARMADA!!!

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Ship everything and ship it so hard you end up sideways in the Suez.

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laskulls:

More male characters who are interested in their mother’s legacy. As a trope there’s a lot of sons and daughters who follow in the father’s footsteps and there’s yes, girls who honor their mother, ect. But let’s have more dudes who are like. Stumbling on their mom’s secret fairy cottage or some shit. And they’re like aight gotta make the tea

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eerian-sadow:

gothiccharmschool:

luulapants:

orangepanic:

Go read an old fic.

There’s such recency bias in fandom. As an author you post something, get a few reactions, and then it goes off into the bin. As a reader you check the tags, see what’s new, and move on. But a lot of old stuff is really good. It’s just sitting there, gathering dust, waiting for someone to take a peek.

So go on. Treat yourself.

Read an old fic.

I’d argue there’s a bias against like… middle-aged fics in particular. A lot of people sort by kudos or bookmarks, but that’s going to be strongly biased toward older fics, which have had more time to accumulate them. Then there’s people that sort by date and read the newest. But there’s so much good material in that middle area.

A friend taught me her trick for smaller fandoms, which is to sort by kudos and use the published date filters to go through the fandom in 6-month increments. Within a 6-month time span, you’re not really going to get the kudos-over-time bias. Basically, you end up reading the best fics of each 6-month period until you start hitting fics below your quality threshold, wherever that is. You’ll find so much good material that way that would never have crossed your line of sight otherwise.

This is a clever idea, and I’m reblogging it so I remember to do it.

Is this post why my back catalog is getting groups of kudos in roughly six month increments? How delightful!

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Asker Anonymous Asks:

Seeing people in the comments of the latest election related post on AO3 say there should be a separate category for trans people instead of them being put in m/m, f/m, f/f, other or multi reminds me of the 60 year old therapist I went to once who thought trans was a sexuality and talked about how I was a confused sexual being who probably slept around a lot and she knew lots of transes who fucked around a lot.

Trans men are men. Trans women are women. AO3 lets you tag when there's a trans character in it. Instead of getting triggered by that and demanding trans people be othered, have they considered just excluding the relevant tags from the filter?

Joke's on them, though, because even if AO3 were considering this incredibly stupid idea of adding a category that doesn't tell you the gender identities of, genitalia of or orientation of a couple, they seem to not realize no one would use it. Unless you're a 60 year old conservative who thinks trans men don't exist and trans is a sexuality, you're going to tag m/m as m/m even if one of the men is trans. Never in my life would I go, "Ah, yes, this story about a trans woman falling in love with another woman is not a lesbian, sapphic, bi, or pan romance, it is clearly trans!" because there's more to a human being, even a fictional one, than just their being trans.

People are fucking stupid. And I'm very alarmed by that because "trans women are women, trans men are men" is so basic but even in queer fandom spaces people keep acting like it's not true. When is society going to grow the fuck up?

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olderthannetfic:

How silly. The binary categories work fine for all the binary characters.

dreaminghour:

16woodsequ:

darubyprincx:

The "Was I a good meme?" meme, a four-panel hand drawn black and white comic. In the first panel, Death stands besides a simplistic figure with a halo and a confused expression and tells them that it is time to go. In the second panel, the figure looks up at Death and says, "But I haven't finished my fic on ao3 yet". In the third panel, Death says "Oh, okay." In the fourth panel, Death can be seen walking away, notably without the figure by their side.ALT

if anyone ever finds a way to legit cheat death then my money’s on ao3 authors being the ones who do

Straight up, my sister has instructions and a detailed doc to follow if I die with unfinished works

DID YOU KNOW…

You can set a “fannish next of kin” on AO3? So if you have a friend whom you trust and in the event of your untimely passing, they will take care of your works for you. Whether thats orphaning them (removing your name from them permanently), deleting them or just noting you are gone. This is inline with having a social media will.

You do not have to be theirs if you don’t want to and you can revoke this at any time. Just something to think about.

From AO3: How can my fannish next-of-kin get control of my fanworks?

A fannish next-of-kin can activate the agreement by sending a message to our Abuse team that you are dead or permanently incapacitated (this will not be an Abuse case, but our Abuse team handles the process). The Archive will send a message to the email address associated with your account. If we do not receive a response from that address within ten days, we will transfer control of your account to your fannish next-of-kin. The Archive will not do any independent investigation into whether you are dead or incapacitated.

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thowawayuntilfurthernotice:

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Pirate all your favorite shows, movies, and games while you still have the chance.

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royalhandmaidens:

if i could bring back one muslim fashion trend that i can’t believe we let die it would definitely have to be “girlies tucking pretty little daggers and knives into waist belts but also knowing how to use them”

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